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Why Doing Everything Yourself Is Costing You More Than You Think

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Barnaby Lashbrooke

Founder and CEO of Time etc, author of The Hard Work Myth

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As a founder, you’re no stranger to wearing multiple hats—sometimes all of them!

Single-handedly taking care of operations, marketing, customer support, and everything in between feels like the ultimate money-saving strategy. You’re in control, you're making sure things get done “the right way,” and you’re saving on hiring costs. Sounds like a no-brainer, right?

Yet, the late nights, constant stress, and nagging feelings of stagnation tell a different story. While you may feel productive, the reality is that doing everything yourself might be costing you far more than you realize. From missed opportunities to burnout, this "DIY" mindset could be the very thing holding you back from the success and freedom you envisioned when starting your business.

So, let’s explore why founders often fall into this trap, the hidden costs of doing it all, and the transformative benefits of letting go of admin tasks.

Why do we do everything ourselves?

It’s no secret that most founders instinctively try to do everything themselves. But the truth is, the desire to do it all isn’t just about necessity. There are deeper forces at work behind this behavior.

Let’s unpack some of the most common emotional and psychological reasons that drive us to keep everything on our plates.

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Control: “I know how it’s done, and I want it done right.”

You’ve poured your heart and soul into building your business from the ground up. Every detail reflects your hard work, your vision, and your expertise.

That’s why the idea of handing over even the smallest task to someone else feels like a risk. What if they don’t meet your standards? What if something slips through the cracks or—worse—mistakes happen?

It’s not just about letting go of tasks—it’s about letting go of control, and most people would agree that's not a pleasant feeling.

These doubts and fears often lead to the belief that it's "safer" to do it all yourself, even when the workload becomes too much to bear.

Familiarity: “I’ve always done it this way—it’s comfortable.”

When you’ve been handling these admin tasks for so long, it starts to feel like second nature. You know every step, every shortcut, and every little detail so well that it’s almost automatic. In fact, it might not even register as “work” anymore—it’s just part of your day.

And because it’s familiar, handing it off to someone else can feel more inconvenient than keeping it on your plate. You might tell yourself, “It only takes a few minutes,” or “It’ll be easier if I just do it myself.”

Avoiding complexity: “No need to manage, train, or explain.”

Let's be honest, bringing an extra set of hands into your business can often be much easier said than done.

When you're juggling the countless demands of running a business, writing job descriptions, sorting through applications, conducting interviews, and onboarding your new team member takes time and energy that you simply might not have. All this can feel like a mountain of extra work—far more effort than just continuing to do everything yourself.

It’s easy to fall into the mindset of “Why bother?” After all, you know how to do the job, and you can get it done without having to explain it to anyone else. Avoiding the complexity of hiring and training feels like the simpler, faster option—at least in the short term.

Lower expectations: “It’s easier to deal with mistakes I’ve made myself.”

What do we mean by this?

We all know that no one is perfect, and no one is immune from making mistakes. However, as Stephen Covey wisely pointed out, "We judge ourselves by our intentions and others by their behavior." This highlights a common psychological bias where we tend to be more forgiving of our own errors because we understand the reasoning and context behind our actions.

On the other hand, when someone else makes a mistake, we tend to focus solely on the outcome, which can feel more frustrating—or even personal.

By keeping tasks to yourself, it feels as though you’re not only avoiding this frustration but also maintaining more control over the outcomes, even if that control comes with added stress and responsibility.

Sense of purpose: “Being busy feels productive.”

For many founders, there is a strong link between all the things they are responsible for and how they perceive (and prove) their worth in their business.

The thought of offloading tasks and, therefore, having “less” to do can trigger a fear that we might be seen as less hardworking or less valuable.

It’s not always easy to admit, but there’s also a certain comfort in keeping busy with admin. A packed schedule full of tasks, even menial ones, keeps your hands moving and your mind distracted away from deeper, more challenging problems. You don't have to think, you just have to do.

Checking off these smaller tasks can give that satisfying sense of accomplishment, even if deep down, you know those tasks aren’t moving the needle in the long run. It’s a way to feel productive without having to face the harder, more strategic work.

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The hidden costs of doing everything yourself

While those reasons may feel valid, the long-term consequences tell a different story.

Let's explore the true price your business—and your own life—could be paying.

Time costs

Administrative tasks can be deceptively time-consuming. What might feel like a quick chore often spirals into hours of repetitive, low-value work. For example, you might plan to spend 10 minutes responding to emails, only to realize an hour later you’ve barely made a dent in your inbox. These small tasks quickly add up, silently eating away at your most valuable resource: time.

In fact, a recent study found that small business owners spend an average of 300 hours per year on administrative tasks alone. That’s nearly eight full workweeks dedicated to activities like data entry, scheduling, and email management—tasks that are necessary but don't need your unique skills and expertise as a founder.

Financial costs

When you consider the costs of recruitment, salaries, equipment, and so on, doing everything yourself seems like the most cost-effective option for your business.

But in reality, that's not exactly true.

Think about it: would you pay a CEO's hourly rate for tasks like email management, data entry, or scheduling? Well, that's pretty much what you're doing right now.

When you handle administrative tasks yourself, you’re essentially hiring yourself at a premium rate to do low-skill work. It’s like using a luxury sports car to make local pizza deliveries.

To put it into perspective, let's say your time is worth $100 per hour based on the value you bring to your business, and admin tasks take up around ten hours of your time each week. Doing these tasks yourself would add up to $1,000 in lost value every week. However, hiring a virtual assistant (VA) for the same amount of time would only cost $360.

Instead of investing in growth and profitability, you’re funneling your resources into low-value activities that don’t directly contribute to your bottom line.

Mental costs

When you're constantly shifting between roles, responsibilities, and priorities, it's no wonder that 45% of entrepreneurs report feeling stressed, compared to 42% of workers in other professions. While the difference may seem small, the effect on founders—who often have fewer support systems and higher stakes—can be profound.

When your mental bandwidth is stretched thin, the effects ripple across every area of your life. Decision-making becomes slower and less effective because your brain is too overwhelmed to process information clearly. Productivity also takes a nosedive as you struggle to focus or prioritize. The result is a frustrating vicious cycle: stress and overwhelm make it harder to get things done, which only leads to more stress and falling behind.

This cycle can also erode your creativity and problem-solving abilities—skills that are critical for founders. Instead of innovating and strategizing, you’re stuck in survival mode, just trying to keep up with the day-to-day demands. Over time, this mental drain can make you feel disconnected from the passion and purpose that inspired you to start your business in the first place.

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Opportunity costs

Have you ever stopped to wonder what ideas or opportunities might be slipping through the cracks while you’re buried in admin?

The truth is, every moment spent on repetitive, back-office tasks is a moment that could have been used to innovate, strategize, or explore new opportunities. Founders often miss out on transformative growth simply because they’re too bogged down by the present to step back and think about the future.

What makes this cost even more significant is that opportunities, by their nature, are often fleeting. Timing is everything, and if you’re too overwhelmed to act, those windows may close before you even realize they were there.

Work-life balance costs

It’s not just about professional opportunities, either. Time spent ticking off admin tasks often comes at the expense of personal priorities and self-care.

A survey by The Alternative Board reveals that 84% of business owners work more than 40 hours per week. For many founders, these extended hours aren’t a choice but a necessity, as the demands of running a business often spill into evenings, weekends, and even vacations. While this level of commitment is admirable, it comes at a significant cost to your personal life, health, and overall well-being.

The hours you invest in tasks that could be outsourced are hours you’ll never get back, and the late nights and missed weekends can strain relationships, making it harder to stay connected with family and friends. Over time, this disconnect can lead to feelings of isolation and guilt, further adding to the mental and emotional toll.

This constant grind also takes a physical toll. Fatigue, poor sleep, and lack of time for exercise or healthy meals can lead to burnout and other long-term health issues. Stress levels rise as the boundaries between work and personal life blur, leaving you feeling like there’s never enough time to rest or recharge.

Over time, this can create a vicious cycle where you’re working harder but accomplishing less, all while your personal relationships and health continue to suffer.

The real benefits of offloading admin tasks

Here’s what happens when you let go of those repetitive admin tasks:

You create space in your week

When you offload routine admin work, you’re essentially buying back your time.

Imagine having an extra day—or even just a few uninterrupted hours—added to your schedule each week. How would you spend it?

On the professional side, those extra hours could be the key to shifting your focus from managing the present to building the future. Whether it’s brainstorming new ideas, meeting with investors, or refining your long-term strategy, the breathing room created by outsourcing admin tasks empowers you to prioritize what truly matters.

On a personal level, it might mean finally carving out time to make memories with family and friends, catching up on those precious moments that work often steals away. It could also mean pursuing a passion that’s been on the back burner for far too long, or simply taking a much-needed break to recharge.

Offloading admin tasks isn’t just about getting things off your plate—it’s about creating the space you need to thrive as a leader and as a person.

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You get organized and in control

Instead of feeling overwhelmed by a never-ending to-do list, you’ll feel empowered and in control of your time and resources.

Offloading day-to-day admin tasks frees you from the constant mental clutter of keeping up with the small stuff. Instead of feeling reactive and pulled in a thousand directions, you can take a proactive approach to your time—investing it where it counts the most.

The mental relief alone is transformative, giving you the clarity to make better decisions and the energy to execute them effectively. Deadlines are met, priorities are clear, and your goals are front and center.

You can do what you do best

When you offload time-consuming, repetitive work, you free yourself to focus on your zone of genius—those areas where your unique talents, skills, and passions shine. Whether it’s creative problem-solving, visionary planning, or building meaningful relationships, this is where you bring the most value to your business.

Imagine the difference it could make if you spent the majority of your day doing what you’re truly best at. Instead of being bogged down by admin or operational details, you’d have the time and mental space to tackle high-impact activities that directly drive growth and innovation.

You love every day again

Running a business should be exciting, inspiring, and fulfilling. But let's be honest, when your days are consumed by emails, invoices, spreadsheets, and scheduling, that spark can start to fade. It’s hard to stay passionate about your work when you’re bogged down in the minutiae of managing it.

By letting go of what doesn’t light you up, you can fall back in love with your work and wake up every day excited about what’s ahead. It allows you to show up as the best version of yourself—not just for your business but also for your team, clients, and loved ones.

With less stress and more time for what truly matters, you’ll be reminded why you started this journey in the first place—and why you’re determined to keep going.

You fast-track your progress

Handing tasks over to a trusted assistant isn’t just about lightening your load, it’s about creating the ideal conditions for success.

Every business has growth opportunities waiting to be unlocked, but those opportunities require time, focus, and creative energy to seize. And when you no longer have repetitive admin feeding on all three, you’ll have the bandwidth to spot opportunities, address potential challenges before they escalate, and focus on long-term strategies that take your business to the next level.

What's the bottom line?

As a founder, it’s completely natural to want to do it all. Your business is your baby, and handing over even the smallest task can feel like letting go of a piece of yourself. But here’s the hard truth: clinging to every task isn’t just exhausting—it’s holding you back. By gripping too tightly, you risk suffocating the very growth you’re working so hard to achieve.

Remember, your time and expertise are far too valuable to be spent on tasks that don’t require your unique touch. Even an hour spent organizing spreadsheets or managing your inbox is an hour taken away from driving innovation, building relationships, or making those big decisions only you can make.

So, why not start today?

Find just one thing you could offload and consider hiring a virtual assistant to take it off your plate. Yes, it’s an investment, but the space you gain will more than pay for itself when you use it to drive growth and focus on what really matters. Your vision deserves the space to flourish, and letting go of the little things is often the first step toward achieving something great.

If you’re in need of a qualified and capable individual to take care of those tasks, Time etc has you covered.

We know just how full your plate is, so we’ll take care of everything for you. We’ll save you up to three to six weeks of recruitment, up to 90% of traditional hiring costs, and all the effort of managing your assistant on a day-to-day basis.

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Barnaby Lashbrooke is the founder and CEO of Virtual Assistant service Time etc as well as the author of The Hard Work Myth, recently recommended by Sir Richard Branson. Barnaby is a Forbes Columnist on productivity and is also an accomplished entrepreneur, selling more than $35 million worth of services.

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